Thomas D. Messere

It is with a heavy heart to announce the passing of our dear Thomas D. Messere, age 77, who passed Monday March 17, 2025 surrounded by family. Thomas was born in Silver Creek, NY on February 28, 1948 to Arthur and Thelma Messere, but lived in Dunkirk his entire life. Thomas was a devoted husband to Cooky Messere (Florence Deszcz), father to Tammy (Messere) Rodriguez and Jodi Messere, and loving grandfather to Matthew Messere and Alexis Rodriguez. 

Thomas attended Dunkirk Schools and served in the Navy from 1966 to 1968. He retired from INX in 2009, after over 20 years of dedicated employment in the maintenance department. Thomas never really retired from working, due to his love of plumbing who he shared with his grandson Matt for 30+ years. 

Thomas was an extremely hardworking man with a passion for maintaining his house and lawn. He took great pride in his John Deere tractor. Thomas also had an extraordinary sense of humor, always having everyone around him smiling and laughing. He really could light up a room. Thomas also had a passion for cooking and keeping all of his family fed, including his animals whom he loved. He will be deeply missed by many. 

Thomas is survived by his loving wife of 53 years, Cooky Messere (Florence Deszcz). Daughters Tammy (David) Rodriguez and Jodi Messere. Grandchildren Matthew (Lynsey Allen) Messere and Alexis (Samuel Pepe) Rodriguez. Fur babies Cooper, MiMi, Emma and Bruiser. Thomas is also survived by many nieces, nephews and cousins. 

In addition to his parents, Thomas is preceded by his brother Robert Messere and an uncle, Carmello Messere.

Relatives and friends are welcome to attend Calling Hours on Saturday, March 22, 2025 from 12-2 p.m. at McGraw-Kowal Funeral Home; 736 Central Avenue, Dunkirk, NY. Prayer services will begin at 1:30 p.m. with Military Honors immediately following. Interment will be held in private.